It’s not you, it’s them. They have money to make those clothes look good. It’s not that they are larger or smaller, but they have people who alter their clothing to help them look the way the world expects “sexy” to look. Curvy. Beautiful. It’s not you. It’s them. They are cheating. (Stolen but wanted to keep and share) This Continue Reading →

My parents again – As I sink down under the waves of financial depression, I know that I am still standing

Ya know, I’ve done great, no cash from my parents since around x-mas, and that cash was only $50 to help pay for x-mas dinner which I invited them and the entire family to attend because they refused to allow Thorik and I to attend the one at their house. Dinner cost me over $200, but did I say a Continue Reading →

Why me??? … (warning, whining ahead)

I give and give and give. I try not to allow my son to want for anything. Yeah, he’s spoiled but not utterly. He doesn’t get EVERYTHING he wants, but I do have to buy clothes and other essentials for him. He does get games, movies and books occasionally. (Books especially ;) I pay all my bills … on time Continue Reading →

The good, the bad and the ugly.

My son had an open house tonight. I actually thought it was just a fund-raiser / chili feed, but no, it was an honest-to-goodness, full-fledged open house. He had a neat little checklist of things. It was fun. In the music room, he got to play various intstruments. It was fun! The teacher had removed all the “sharp” keys from Continue Reading →

Me, an online bitch, whoda thunk

Today I get to play at being a bitch.. :) Okay, maybe it wasn’t ALL playing, but this dude came and disrupted one of the online groups I belong to, and he asked. (yes HE asked) if we would be happier and more comfortable if he left. I jump in right away and say simply “yes”. Well, he replied and Continue Reading →