Maybe this is why I like hugs so much. I really do seem to have an addiction or a RDA as I like to call it. A willing, semi-sharing of energies. A touch, a hug, and I always ask new people… LOL. I haven’t been turned down yet by male or female, but then, I suppose it is possible that I pick up vibes before hand… cuz I don’t ask EVERY one… just most people. Maybe it is just I chose to be around people I can hug.
Hmm.. an example. A couple came with their son to Kevin’s birthday party. They were quiet and almost standoffish. I had no desire to hug them, but I think they are from a different world than I am. Perhaps they were shy… they certainly were quiet. The little boy is a troublemaker in school, Kevin says.. makes me wonder what kind of home life they have. I wonder if they hug in the home? They mellowed a bit as the day wore on, but they were always almost a little “goody goody” for me. My Mom said it was just my imagination, but… she’s one of the “goody goody’s” herself!!!
I have never heard of a heart hug. I think I will stick to my normal, throwing my arms around whoever in whatever way seems the most comfortable!! LOL
All I know is I love hugs and I never seem to get enough of them….
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I have been told that I give good hugs. I think that is probably because I do not hesitate to share my energy with whomever I am hugging. Makes it a LOT more pleasant and comfortable! And fun! :-)