This is from a friend of mine’s blog. I spent a long time on my response to him, and I just wanted to share it.


Have you ever questioned the feelings you sometimes get, whenever you’re talking to someone, and something seems off? Have you ever asked yourself..” Why am I flirting with this person?” Would you have ever considered dating the neighborhood “Nerd?” Could you conceive the thought of putting an animal, “out of its misery” If you came accross an animal in distress, and there’s no more

Looking back, I wonder how I could have done this or that and what the hell was I thinking?

Contemplating this, I realize that I learned something from the experience which should prevent me from making the same mistake ever again. The information that we have attained in the past colors our present and we think differently.

Each experience builds our character, “what didn’t kill me, only made me stronger”.… read more

Choosing Not To Be A Target
Emotional Attacks

Hurtful confrontations often leave us feeling drained and confused. When someone attacks us emotionally, we may wonder what we did to rouse their anger, and we take their actions personally. We may ask ourselves what we could have done to compel them to behave or speak that way toward us. It’s important to remember that there are no real targets in an emotional attack and that it is usually a way for the attacker to redirect their uncomfortable feelings away from more

  1. Kevin is living with me.
  2. I have a good job IN Topeka. (One year ago I was miserable in KC)
  3. I have been independent for an entire year.
  4. I survived one year of paying bills all by myself.

Foundations Of Evolution

Acknowledging Your Growth

Since personal evolution is most often a slow and gradual process, it can be difficult to recognize the scope of the changes taking place in our more